Tuesday, November 17, 2015

Request to Warhawk football fans. Show up at the Perk on Saturday!



The  UW-Whitewater football team is once again in the NCAA III Playoffs. Will the Warhawks be able to capture a third consecutive national title, and seventh in the last eight years this year? A game at a time, right?

My question today is - can we get more than 1100 to Perkins Stadium on Saturday for the Hawks 1st round game vs. St. Norbert?

For a program that averaged 7500 per game two years ago and 10,000 per game last year, I am left scratching my head at Whitewater’s paltry playoff attendance.

I’ve heard all the excuses a million times!

-         Students have to pay in the Tournament where they don’t in the regular season.
-         It will be a rout over an easy opponent in 1st round
-         The game can be watched on live TV
-         Weather 
-         Deer hunting (later on the Road to Salem
 
A couple of thoughts… 
 
-         Students required to pay in an NCAA rule.     
-         Remember this an NCAA event, not a Whitewater event. No cannon allowed!?!
-         Students have been offered hundreds of free (donated) playoff tickets over the years and few students show up at the “Perk”
-         Games can be seen “live” on UWW TV
-         Deer hunting (later on the Road to Salem
 
               
-         Why do adult fans stay away in droves?
 
     -  Weak competition in first round? 3791 of you showed   
         up to watch the Hawks play Eau Claire on Oct. 31. It was                             
         a team that hadn’t won a game in two years 
      -  Weather? More of you show up to playoff games with
         wind chills below zero than a 1st round game with 
         temperatures in the 30s or 40s 
      - The game can be watched on live TV
 
Correct me if I’m wrong, but we consider ourselves among the best NCAA Division III fans in the nation. Here’s your chance to prove it!
 

Saturday, November 14, 2015

Trey Bell: Once a Warhawk, always a Warhawk



UW-Whitewater is home to one of the most, NCAA III football programs in the country.  As fans we focus each season on Warhawk wins and championships won.

Over the years I have bad allowed to get ‘inside the circle” as publisher of warhawkfootball.com beginning in 2004.  That was the year that Trey Bell was a senior All-American corner cornerback on the UW-Whitewater football team.

Once I got inside ‘that circle’ I started to realize that I was covering not just a football team but a band of brothers. I had heard the term Once a Warhawk - Always a Warhawk. It was beginning with that ’04 team that I first began to understand the true meaning of that phrase.

In September of 2014, Trey was diagnosed with stage IV Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma., a cancer in the immune system.
Led by Trey’s former teammate Jim Lesczynski a GO FUND ME fundraising drive for his former UW-Whitewater teammate.

While Trey’ cancer I currently in remission, Bell continues to experience back pain, stomach problems and digestive issues, side effects he said he'll continue to experience for the foreseeable future.

"There's concern that it may recur in the next year or two, so my doctors want to make sure to keep an eye on me," Bell said. "I don't have any other treatments as of now."

14 months in, the staggering medical bills continue to mount. 

Trey indicated on Thursday night how much he has been ‘lifted’ by the tremendous emotional support he has received from so many here in southern Wisconsin.

That support will be on center stage today with the launch of the Gloves Off-Supporting The Battle Tested cancer public awareness campaign.

Gloves Off-Supporting The Battle Tested T-shirts are going to be sold in the Perkins Stadium parking lots today prior to the      Warhawks taking on UW-Stout. A win would virtually clinch a playoff berth for the two-time defending NCAA III National Champions.


”Without the support from all of you through these trying times this fight would have been a lot harder,” Bell says. ”The fight is what you make it and with whom you make it with. You kept me focused and ready everyday and for that I was never alone.”

“As a result of my recent great news and the out pour of support. We have decided to start a movement that will start at the University of Whitewater on the 14th of November.”

“This event: no matter the size of donations will help my family and I pay off this relentless disease and begin to write a new chapter in our lives.”

”So thank you Whitewater family and friends for always having my back”

”I hope that you will join us in years to come as we continue our fight with "Gloves Off" to help multiple families each year who have been dealt such hands and could use a little HELP. there are several diseases out there that deserve our respect and attention. and I for one am ready to give it to them.”

”Please join us as we take ours gloves off to fight!”

ONCE A WARHAWK, ALWAYS AWARHAWK!

Friday, November 13, 2015

Trey Bell to raise cancer awareness tomorrow at PerkinsvStadium



I'm currently in my 445th day since being diagnosed with inoperable and incurable stage IV colorectal cancer with liver metastases Tomorrow's goal is to make UW-Whitewater Warhawk football fans aware of the need to be proactive on the signs of potential cancer.

Pay attention to what your doctors are telling you - they are the professionals. Have faith in the medicine they are giving you. Pay attention to what your doctors are telling you. Know what type and stage of cancer you may have. And mot importantly, do the best you can to remain optimistic, and approach your life with a ‘one day at a time’ attitude

 A number of friends and former teammates of Trey Bell will be in the Perkins Stadium parking lot amongst tailgaters tomorrow prior to UW-Whitewater’s final regular season game vs. UW-Stout at 2 p.m.

Trey’s former teammates will be helping launch sales of the official Gloves off – Supporting the Battle Tested cancer awareness T-shirts

 "This is a 'we' project, not a 'me' project," the former Warhawk All-American (2004) indicated on the KOOL-106.5 Coaches Show Thursday evening at Second Salem Brewing in Whitewater.

"It is to raise public awareness for those that are currently battling cancer. That we are thinking about them, and praying that each cancer patient will eventually win their courageous fight against cancer."  
 A portion of the proceeds that are raised from Saturday’s T-shirt sale will be going to assist Trey with his staggering medical bills as he continues his battle with Non-Hodgkin's Lymphoma.

'It I my hope that that this project will increase cancer awareness can evolve into a nationwide campaign," Bell said.

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Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Tom Pattison Book excerpt (Battling Cancer One Day At A Time



Chapter 2 (First Draft): Why did I decide on a radio career
Tom Pattison (circa 1978) WTON Radio in Staunton, Virginia

I do a lot of day dreaming as I battle my inoperable and incurable stage IV colorectal cancer.  I love listening to radio “air checks” of some of my favorite disc jockeys growing up. Names like; Rob Sherwood (KDWB/KSTP.WYOO), Larry Lujak (WLS),  True Don Bleu (KDWB), Scott Victor Christenson (WEAQ in Eau Claire).

Those are the guys I listened to in high school, college, and while attending Brown Institute of Broadcasting in Minneapolis.

It was when I was a senior at Durand High School when I first started thinking of becoming a radio broadcaster.  Listening to DJ’s on the radio were bigger than life to me.  While becoming a disc jockey was a dream, the reality of going to college ended when I was accepted at UW-Eau Claire. 

My mom and dad both graduated from the University of Wisconsin in Madison and always hoped that I would follow in their footsteps. 

I was extremely shy back in my high school days and I remember the idea of attending Wisconsin thoroughly intimidated me.  I thought I could overcome that shyness enough to be successful by attending UW-Eau Claire. The school was named Wisconsin State University – Eau Claire during the 1960s.

Two attempts to “make it through” college at Eau Claire ended in disappointment. My major was sociology.  Heck, I didn’t even have the slightest idea of what I would do with a sociology degree.  I remember sociology was “big” back in the turbulent ‘60s.

It was at this time that my interest in a radio career became real for me.  I researched schools that were known for developing “broadcast” talent. I soon found out that Brown Institute of Broadcasting, located on Lake Street in Minneapolis, was considered the top non-college broadcast school in the country.

I was accepted on my first application in 1973. The “shy guy” from little Durand found out on arrival that the vast majority of Brown students were extremely talented, with big egos.  Most were younger than me and many had the attitude that they knew more than their instructors.

My attitude totally changed an arrival at Brown. My goal was to work harder than anyone else in my class.  Most of the guys were spending most of the day showing off to the girls (and there were quite a few) in the class. My focus was to learn radio and make something out of my life.

When I was a senior in high school, one night I played “DJ” in my bedroom I had my tape recorder and record player.   I had scripted some of what I had heard KDWB’s Rob Sherwood saying leading up to a song on the radio.  It is called “talking up the ramp” of a record, prior to the lyrics starting.  I still remember two of the 45s I had that night – Whole Lotta Love (Led Zeppelin) and Evil Ways (Santana). Mt brother John, whose bedroom was across the hall from mine, thought what I was doing was hilarious and played the tape to some of his friends at school. Maybe I wasn’t that good?!

At Brown, they had four or five mock radio studios and you were assigned to one. It was the station you worked at while attending Brown. My “station” was hypothetically located in Plover, Wisconsin. The news, the commercials were all involving Plover.

The DJ worked two hour airshafts daily. The first hour of each day was in an actual “classroom.”  Our instructor would play scoped “airchecks” of members of his class each morning.  The very first time my air check was played to the class ended with instructor, Roy Finden (who was also the weekend weatherman at KSTP TV 5 Minneapolis/St. Paul, telling the class, “I hoped you were listening to Tom “ramp up” on his records. He does it better than half the guys on the radio at stations here in the Twin Cities.”  It was at that moment that I realized that maybe I could be successful.

One of the segments of my Brown education was writing, producing and editing a 60 second commercial. It was made up of two man (or woman) teams. My partner was Ernie Antonelli who had an incredible radio voice.  I wrote, produced and edited the commercial. Ernie was the voice.

Our “client” was Davanni’s Pizza that was opening for the first time in Minneapolis.  Ernie worked their as a part-timer while going to Brown.  Davanni’s actually used our project as its commercial on Twin Cities radio.  Not because of me, but due to Ernie’s incredible voice!

Ernie worked many years on Twin Cities radio stations. He would later move to Los Angles where he did “voice overs” for commercials and other media related projects.

Compared to Ernie’s voice, mine was more like Elmer Fudds!

Brown Institute had an outstanding reputation for finding graduates radio related jobs following graduation.  I had interviews in Wichita, Kansas, Ponca City, Oklahoma, and Ashland, Wisconsin.

I got the job in Ashland were I was an account executive (salesman) during the day and had a 5 hour air shift (5 to 10 p.m.) and also broadcast high school basketball.  I was known as the “Radio Voice of the Indianhead Conference.”

WATW was located in the basement of an apartment complex on the West end of Ashland’s downtown district. I lived in a 2nd floor unit of the apartment building. Due to that, the station increased my salary to be the building’s janitor. More money? You bet.  I had hit the big time!

Fighting Cancer with The Help Of Family, Friends and Warhawk Football by Tom Pattison


Tom Pattison (circa 1978) WTON in Staunton, Virginia


Chapter 2 (First Draft): Why did I decide on a radio career

I do a lot of day dreaming as I battle my inoperable and incurable stage IV colorectal cancer.  I love listening to radio “air checks” of some of my favorite disc jockeys growing up. Names like; Rob Sherwood (KDWB/KSTP.WYOO), Larry Lujak (WLS),  True Don Bleu (KDWB), Scott Victor Christenson (WEAQ in Eau Claire).

Those are the guys I listened to in high school, college, and while attending Brown Institute of Broadcasting in Minneapolis.

It was when I was a senior at Durand High School when I first started thinking of becoming a radio broadcaster.  Listening to DJ’s on the radio were bigger than life to me.  While becoming a disc jockey was a dream, the reality of going to college ended when I was accepted at UW-Eau Claire. 

My mom and dad both graduated from the University of Wisconsin in Madison and always hoped that I would follow in their footsteps. 

I was extremely shy back in my high school days and I remember the idea of attending Wisconsin thoroughly intimidated me.  I thought I could overcome that shyness enough to be successful by attending UW-Eau Claire. The school was named Wisconsin State University – Eau Claire during the 1960s.

Two attempts to “make it through” college at Eau Claire ended in disappointment. My major was sociology.  Heck, I didn’t even have the slightest idea of what I would do with a sociology degree.  I remember sociology was “big” back in the turbulent ‘60s.

It was at this time that my interest in a radio career became real for me.  I researched schools that were known for developing “broadcast” talent. I soon found out that Brown Institute of Broadcasting, located on Lake Street in Minneapolis, was considered the top non-college broadcast school in the country.

I was accepted on my first application in 1973. The “shy guy” from little Durand found out on arrival that the vast majority of Brown students were extremely talented, with big egos.  Most were younger than me and many had the attitude that they knew more than their instructors.

My attitude totally changed an arrival at Brown. My goal was to work harder than anyone else in my class.  Most of the guys were spending most of the day showing off to the girls (and there were quite a few) in the class. My focus was to learn radio and make something out of my life.

When I was a senior in high school, one night I played “DJ” in my bedroom I had my tape recorder and record player.   I had scripted some of what I had heard KDWB’s Rob Sherwood saying leading up to a song on the radio.  It is called “talking up the ramp” of a record, prior to the lyrics starting.  I still remember two of the 45s I had that night – Whole Lotta Love (Led Zeppelin) and Evil Ways (Santana). Mt brother John, whose bedroom was across the hall from mine, thought what I was doing was hilarious and played the tape to some of his friends at school. Maybe I wasn’t that good?!

At Brown, they had four or five mock radio studios and you were assigned to one. It was the station you worked at while attending Brown. My “station” was hypothetically located in Plover, Wisconsin. The news, the commercials were all involving Plover.

The DJ worked two hour airshafts daily. The first hour of each day was in an actual “classroom.”  Our instructor would play scoped “airchecks” of members of his class each morning.  The very first time my air check was played to the class ended with instructor, Roy Finden (who was also the weekend weatherman at KSTP TV 5 Minneapolis/St. Paul, telling the class, “I hoped you were listening to Tom “ramp up” on his records. He does it better than half the guys on the radio at stations here in the Twin Cities.”  It was at that moment that I realized that maybe I could be successful.

One of the segments of my Brown education was writing, producing and editing a 60 second commercial. It was made up of two man (or woman) teams. My partner was Ernie Antonelli who had an incredible radio voice.  I wrote, produced and edited the commercial. Ernie was the voice.

Our “client” was Davanni’s Pizza that was opening for the first time in Minneapolis.  Ernie worked their as a part-timer while going to Brown.  Davanni’s actually used our project as its commercial on Twin Cities radio.  Not because of me, but due to Ernie’s incredible voice!

Ernie worked many years on Twin Cities radio stations. He would later move to Los Angles where he did “voice overs” for commercials and other media related projects.

Compared to Ernie’s voice, mine was more like Elmer Fudds!

Brown Institute had an outstanding reputation for finding graduates radio related jobs following graduation.  I had interviews in Wichita, Kansas, Ponca City, Oklahoma, and Ashland, Wisconsin.

I got the job in Ashland were I was an account executive (salesman) during the day and had a 5 hour air shift (5 to 10 p.m.) and also broadcast high school basketball.  I was known as the “Radio Voice of the Indianhead Conference.”

WATW was located in the basement of an apartment complex on the West end of Ashland’s downtown district. I lived in a 2nd floor unit of the apartment building. Due to that, the station increased my salary to be the building’s janitor. More mon

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Dealing with cancer-related fatigue


One of the aspects of batting my Stage 4 liver cancer that is concerning me most is wondering if my ongoing chemotherapy is making a dent in destroying my tumors.  Dealing with the situation leads to an emotional rollercoaster. 

 Research suggests that most people getting cancer treatment have fatigue. Cancer-related fatigue is very different from everyday fatigue. Cancer-related fatigue is worse. It lasts longer and sleep doesn’t make it better: it’s unpredictable. And many people describe it as overwhelming, affecting every part of their lives.

During my previous colon cancer episode a couple of years ago along with my stroke in 2006, I prided myself in battling with a “one day at a time” attitude. For some reason it has been much more difficult in maintaining that positive attitude.  Bottom line – I’m scared.

One of the things that have carried me in the past has been my association with UW-Whitewater football that dates back to 1988.  As the radio play-by-play voice of Warhawk football followed by being publisher of my warhawkfootball.com website much of my energy has revolved around my interest in UW-Whitewater football.

The defending national champion Warhawks are currently ranked No. 1 in the country and will wrap up an undefeated regular season with a win on Saturday at UW-River Falls.  I should be really excited, but maybe it’s the fatigue and depression I’m currently experiencing that has limited this season’s passion.

Cancer-related fatigue can last from months to years, and continues after treatment ends, too. Many people with cancer say fatigue is the most distressing side effect of cancer and its treatment.

Saturday, November 8, 2014

Additional Info On Liver Cancer Signs Symptoms Support


Simply put, any cancer that begins in the cells of the liver is called liver cancer. There are several different types of liver cancer, however, and the type of cancer depends on where in the liver the cancer starts. Hepatocellular carcinoma, which begins in the hepatocyte cells, is the most common type of liver cancer. Other types of liver cancer are much more rare. When liver cancer is diagnosed, your doctor will determine which type of liver cancer you have.

Liver cancer is most commonly seen in individuals who have chronic liver infections, such as hepatitis B or hepatitis C, have cirrhosis, non-fatty liver disease or other liver diseases and drink excessively for long periods of time. Diabetes and obesity are also known risk factors for liver disease. Rarely, exposure to aflatoxins, poisonous molds that grow on improperly stored crops, can also cause liver cancer. It's important to keep in mind, however, that having risk factors does not necessarily mean you'll develop liver cancer. If you're considered high risk, talk to your doctor about ways you might be able to lower your risk.

Liver cancer does not produce signs and symptoms in the early stages, making early detection and treatment difficult. When symptoms do appear, they usually include unexplained weight loss, yellowing of the skin and eyes (jaundice), white or chalky stools, weakness and fatigue, upper abdominal pain and swelling and loss of appetite. If you experience any of the symptoms of liver cancer, you should talk to your doctor as soon as possible, so an accurate diagnosis can be made and treatment can begin right away.

If liver cancer is suspected, your doctor will run a series of medical tests to determine whether or not your symptoms are caused by liver cancer. These tests may include blood and imaging tests, as well as biopsies for testing liver tissue. If cancer cells are found, your doctor may need to run additional tests to determine which stage your liver cancer is in, as well as what your options for treatment may be.

Once a full diagnosis is made, your doctor will work with you and a team of specialists to decide on the best course of treatment. It's important that you ask any questions you may have about your treatment options, and work with your doctor as a team to come up with treatments that work well for you. Treatments for liver cancer may include chemotherapy, radiation therapy, embolization techniques (such as chemoembolization, in which chemo is injected directly into the liver) and surgery. Your doctor may also determine whether you should be considered for a liver transplant, if necessary.

Early detection and treatment of liver cancer offers the best chance at a successful recover. The farther the cancer progresses, the more difficult it becomes to treat. In more advanced stages, treatment may focus more on making you more comfortable and extending life, rather than trying to remove or eradicate the cancer.

Thursday, November 6, 2014

Concern over my progress in my battle vs. stage 4 liver cancer

Today I am heading back to the VA in Madison to have my CADD chemo pump removed concluding 46 hours of chemo infusion over the past three days.

 I entered my fourth chemo treatment with some significant concern from my oncologist, Ticiana A. Leal, MD.

 The biggest concern centers around an unforeseen 10 lb. weight loss over the past two weeks.  The other concern stems from the difficulty in dealing with chemo.  Excessive fatigue, nausea and vomiting tops the list..  I was prescribed additional medicine to deal with the situation earlier this week.  It seems to be working well.

 As far as dealing with the weight loss issue, Dr. Leal wants me to eat more despite nausea.  I had my first restaurant meal in the past month on Tuesday… Pasta with salad and cheddar rolls.  I have also been filling myself on soups, noodles, yogurt, and pudding on nearly a continuous basis in a bid to increase my weight. I’ll find out the results this afternoon.

 The excessive weight loss issue rocked me for the first 24 hours. After lengthy telephone conversations with my daughter’s Aimee and Kim the past couple of days that “fighting attitude” has returned for me.

 As the saying goes… Having a rough morning?  Place your hand over your heart. Feel that?  That’s called purpose.  Your alive for a purpose. Don’t give up.

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Watching a videofluoroscopic swallow study done (VFSS).

My swallow study on Tuesday allowed doctors to analyze my swallowing. The videofluoroscopic swallow study done (VFSS). The procedure included putting barium in different consistencies of food and take an x-ray movie of you swallowing. The attached is a video a similar dysphagia evaluation to the one I had performed Tuesday

 
 

Please donate to a fund drive for Trey Bell who is battling Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma.

On September 12th, 2014 Trey Bell went to the doctor because of a cough that wouldn't go away. The doctors then tell Trey that he has a mass covering his heart and it was cancer!

A 33 year old father to three beautiful children, Alana 13, Sarina 7, and Devin 5, and loving husband to Lea of 3 years and HS sweethearts for 16 years now in a fight to beat Non Hodgkin's Lymphoma.

Most remember Trey from being a UW-Whitewater graduate, All-American football player, 1st ever Hula Bowl  (D1 All-Star game) from WIAC participant, and Arena Football player.  His exceptional skills, love for his teammates, and ability to lead has led to new paths.

There is a time-honored tradition within the Warhawk football family - Once A Warhawk, Always A Warhawk.

One of Trey's former teammates, Jim Leszczynski, has started a fund drive for Trey. Jim seeded the fund raising with a $100 check.

I ask that you consider donating by clicking onto the following Website:

http://www.gofundme.com/fh6s0s?fb_action_ids=10100852017497593&fb_action_types=og.shares

Today's testing was difficult to swallow


In the time between chemotherapy cycles my doctors took a look today why I’ve been having extreme difficulty swallowing which has been a problem for me for the past several months.

 You may have already had a swallowing test with a speech-language pathologist, also called an SLP. During this test you may have tried different foods and liquids. The SLP may have checked how well you can move the muscles of your mouth and how clearly you talk.

Sometimes the SLP needs even more information about how you swallow. You may need another swallowing test - this time in the radiology, or x-ray, department.
Today’s testing included:
§                         videofluoroscopic swallowing study, or videofluoroscopy
§                         modified barium swallow, or MBS
§                         esophagram
§                         cookie swallow
I wore a purple Warhawk football sweater. I left the testing with my sweater caked in barium.

I was a demanding couple of hours.  I’m back home tonight.

Back to The VA in Madison tomorrow where a dental team will study why chemotherapy continues to destroy my teeth.

http://www.asha.org/public/speech/swallowing/Videofluoroscopic-Swallowing-Study/

Sunday, October 26, 2014

Getting set for heavy duty cycle of chemotherapy

It is time for me to get back on my horse and get some blog posts posted.

 My last post was on Oct. 13 when I talked about staying strong while going through chemotherapy.

 I have now gone through my first two cycles of chemo. The stress on my body has been much greater than it was during my colon cancer 18 months ago.

 My chemo treatment for my stage 4 liver cancer got underway and takes place every two weeks (Tuesday and Wednesday) with 44 hours of chemo delivered into my body by way of a CADD pump computer.. The drug used has been Fluorouracil (5-FU)

I’ve been dealing with a number of side effects which has made this cancer fight extremely challenging. I’m dealing with:

  • nausea*
  • vomiting*
  • poor appetite
  • sores in mouth, lips, or throat*
  • low white blood cell count with increased risk of infection*
  • low platelet count with increased risk of bleeding*
  • darkening of skin and nail beds
  • diarrhea

A new, more potent chemo drug will begin for me next week. I’ve already been told this new drug will be very difficult on my body. 

I must be strong!!!

Monday, October 13, 2014

I must stay CANCER STRONG in dealing with this horrible disease

I was told going in that the side effects dealing with chemotherapy this time around would be more troublesome than my colon cancer chemo treatments two years ago.

The prognosis was “right on.”

 My chemo treatment for my stage 4 liver cancer got underway last week (Tuesday and Wednesday) with 44 hours of chemo delivered into my body by way of a CADD pump computer.

 Dealing with chemotherapy is a fulltime job.  If you don’t treat it that way it will take over your mind and body.

 The just concluded weekend certainly tested my will.

 I dealt with pain, nausea and vomiting, fever, chills, sores in my mouth and throat, dry hacking cough, cancer-related fatigue.

 I must stay “cancer strong!”

 I must admit I cry uncontrollably when I view Jim Volcano delivering his memorable speech at the 1993 ESPY telecast… 

Thursday, October 9, 2014

I've now moved into phase 2 in my fight vs. liver cancer

Sorry for missing the past couple of days of blogging. It definitely been an "adjustment week" for me!

I have now moved into phase 2 in my fight vs. liver cancer. I had a surgical procedure Tuesday morning followed by the start of my first cycle of chemotherapy getting underway. It has been a tough body adjustment.  That first 24 hours was difficult as I woke up at 2 AM Wednesday and couldn’t get back to sleep.

Last night was much better. Back to Madison today to make sure my CADD chemo infusion computer is acting probably.

Success of my chemo will determine if doctors will be forced to remove a portion of my liver. Day at a time!!

Monday, October 6, 2014

Treyton Kilar's Field of Dreams grand opening tugs at one's heart strings


 When you are in the middle of battling cancer any good news is very much welcomed.  I received a heavy dose of good news on Saturday. Yes, the No. 1 ranked UW-Whitewater football team rolled over archrival UW-La Crosse in front of nearly 11,000 at Perkins Stadium.

 The best news of the day though happened just over the hill from the “Perk” where a dream of Mary and Mike Kilar held its grand opening on the northern edge of Whitewater's Starin Park.

 The Field of Dreams has been built in memory of Treyton Kilar, a 6-year-old boy who was killed when his family’s vehicle was struck by a drunken driver on Sept. 2, 2010. The Whitewater youth, an avid baseball player, was a first-grader at St. John the Baptist Catholic School in Jefferson.

 The youth baseball field honors Treyton Kilar, a boy whose dream was to someday play major league baseball. But Mary and Mike's 6-year-old son was killed Sept. 2, 2010, in a crash involving a drunk driver.

 “Treyton is looking down on us from heaven and watching all of his friends have a chance to play on something that he would have absolutely loved playing on,” Mary said.

 In the past four years, the Kilars have been overwhelmed by the emotional and financial support of community members; the city council, the Milwaukee Brewers, and area businesses that have helped make the field a reality. Multiple fundraisers have included kickball and dodge ball tournaments, "Run for Trey" races and donations. These efforts have resulted in more than $710,000 toward the project's $900,000 goal.

Friday, October 3, 2014

I’m certainly not alone battling this terrible disease


One aspect of cancer that I learned quickly is the fact that I’m certainly not alone battling this terrible disease. 

Former UW-Whitewater All-American cornerback Trey Bell was recently diagnosed with lymphatic cancer. He has been at St. Lukes Hospital in Milwaukee all week for chemotherapy treatment. Trey is positive and focusing with a one day at a time attitude. He is scheduled to get out of the hospital this afternoon.

I posted this information on Twitter late yesterday afternoon. Within six hours a large number of former UWW teammates posted messages to Trey.

Once a Warhawk – Always a Warhawk!

 

 

Thursday, October 2, 2014

Trying to stay as normal as possible

Emotionally, Tuesday was a very good day.  The day started by joining Bob Berezowitz, Pike Teipner and Claude Miller on our “every three week” trip to Madison for lunch at the Avenue Bar. The day always includes plenty of Whitewater conversation. It is always one of my favorite days each month.

 Tuesday night I attended my first UW-Whitewater Quarterback Club meeting of the season at Saxes Lone Star Inn.  Big crowd – very inspiring! 

 Maybe it is due to the fact that a lot has been going through my mind the past several weeks – but with the large crowd the noise factor really tired me out. The evening was very tiring but extremely enjoyable. The meatloaf was fantastic!!!

 Hopefully my busy day Tuesday will help me get stronger physically in advance of the start of my chemotherapy treatments next week.

 One thing for sure – with all the football talk on Tuesday I am very fired up to be at Perkins Stadium on Saturday when the Warhawks play host to UW-La Crosse in the WIAC opener.

Wednesday, October 1, 2014

Getting set for the start of chemotherapy

It spent Tuesday afternoon at the Veterans Hospital in Madison meeting with my oncologist and Palliative Care team relating to my recently diagnosed Stage 4 liver cancer.

 Joined by my daughter Kimberlee and son-in-law Christopher, Dr. Leal further explained her dianosis and allowed us to view the Pet-Scan photos of the tumors in my liver.   

 She talked about the importance of starting my chemotherapy treatments.

 Next up will be a procedure to surgically place a a “port” in my chest.

 During cancer treatment, my health care team needs access to my veins to give my treatments including chemotherapy, blood transfusions, antibiotics, or intravenous (IV) fluids. They will also need to take frequent samples of my blood for testing. To make these procedures easier, Dr. Lean  ordered the insertion of a special medical device inside my chest.

 The procedure is scheduled for Tuesday morning with my chemotherapy to begin Tuesday afternoon.

 One day at a time!

Monday, September 29, 2014

Thank God for the kids!

One of the aspects that come along with a 62 year old dad suffering from cancer is the feeling that “dad” is no longer as strong as he should be as part of his family.  I had a long chat with one of my daughters last night and as we were talking the words to Harry Chapin’s Cat’s in the Cradle entered my head. The 1974 song written by Harry and his wife Sandy have long tugged on my heart.  Here is a sample of the lyrics that focus on a fathers love for his son (in my case, a daughter).  The following is an excerpt from the lyrics….

 My son turned ten just the other day
He said, "Thanks for the ball, Dad, come on let's play
can you teach me to throw", I said "Not today
I got a lot to do", he said, "That's ok
And he walked away but his smile never dimmed
And said, "I'm gonna be like him, yeah
You know I'm gonna be like him"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man on the moon
When you comin' home, Dad
I don't know when, but we'll get together then
You know we'll have a good time then

Well, he came from college just the other day
So much like a man I just had to say
"Son, I'm proud of you, can you sit for a while"
He shook his head and said with a smile
"What I'd really like, Dad, is to borrow the car keys
See you later, can I have them please"

And the cat's in the cradle and the silver spoon
Little boy blue and the man on the moon
When you comin' home son
I don't know when, but we'll get together then, Dad
You know we'll have a good time then

I've long since retired, my son's moved away
I called him up just the other day
I said, "I'd like to see you if you don't mind"
He said, "I'd love to, Dad, if I can find the time
You see my new job's a hassle and kids have the flu
But it's sure nice talking to you, Dad
It's been sure nice talking to you"

And as I hung up the phone it occurred to me
He'd grown up just like me
My boy was just like me

 I’m so proud of my daughters. They are absolutely my “rock.”

 To listen to the song click on the following link…